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Thomas Norman Toohey
October 26, 1950 ~ March 15, 2016 (age 65) 65 Years Old Light a Candle
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A candle was lit by Barbara Genovese
on March 21, 2016 2:34 AM
Message from Barbara Genovese
March 21, 2016 2:31 AM
To my very special friend you will be greatly missed. Tom when God made you they threw away the mold. You were a man with integrity and had a big heart. I know you went through a lot and our now Safely Home at peace and not suffering any longer.
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain,
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain,
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
Message from Judith toohey
May 6, 2016 9:50 AM
Each time I read your message I cry. I thank you for caring for him, for praying with him, and for giving him courage. He had courage, faith and so much love in his life. He is in the birds that fly in the trees, and dimes we find in the house, and cardinal that sit in the tree by the bedroom. I know he is with us all. Thank you again.
A candle was lit by Barbara Genovese
on March 21, 2016 2:24 AM
A Designers Choice was sent on March 20, 2016
I offer my most sincere condolences to the family of Tom Toohey. --Alan Demers, Jr.
A candle was lit by Carpl Fox-Turpin
on March 20, 2016 10:22 AM
Message from Peggy Powell Toohey (Mrs John Toohey)
March 19, 2016 6:49 PM
I was so sorry to hear of Tom's death. I hadn't seen him since he was in his 20's. My condolences to all of his family.
Message from Peggy Toohey
May 6, 2016 9:44 AM
Thank you for thinking of Tom. He is missed very much by us all.
A candle was lit by Angela and Wings,CT rescue transport to a fellow dog lover
on March 19, 2016 11:44 AM
A candle was lit by Angela Ciufo Rovinelli and family
on March 19, 2016 11:40 AM
Message from Angela Ciufo Rovinelli
March 19, 2016 11:40 AM
Tommy, TNT we called for short, (who later became our stepbrother) moved to our neighborhood on or before 1960. Along with his father Tom Sr. and his grandparents, (we always called as Nana & Pop). They lived in the 1st floor apt on the corner of Salem St.
We (the 3 Ciufo kids at the time): Rose, Ray, & Ang, lived diagonally across. Along with the D’Amore kids: Ricky, Patricia and Robert, who lived on the other corner we had a great little group of friends. Tommy was at our house for dinner nearly every day
Tommy went to parochial school and we all went to public school, but there were plenty of after school ball games, etc. He was among the oldest and got his license first. He drove a big Bonneville I think, and gave me lots of rides in that big car & even let me drive. We moved out of the street in a few years but Tommy and his father were visitors. Early in the 1970's our parents married.
I recall his high school graduation, & how he wanted to go to the original Woodstock. I remember how he and my brother Ray were both drafted during Vietnam. Luckily both were assigned stateside. I remember his wedding to his first wife Mary, and his oldest son Sean is slightly younger than my oldest Jennifer.
Sometime after Tom Sr. died, we lost touch in the 1990's but I still have plenty of fond memories of him.
My condolences go out to his entire family. He was a fun guy, with a kind heart and big smile.
We (the 3 Ciufo kids at the time): Rose, Ray, & Ang, lived diagonally across. Along with the D’Amore kids: Ricky, Patricia and Robert, who lived on the other corner we had a great little group of friends. Tommy was at our house for dinner nearly every day
Tommy went to parochial school and we all went to public school, but there were plenty of after school ball games, etc. He was among the oldest and got his license first. He drove a big Bonneville I think, and gave me lots of rides in that big car & even let me drive. We moved out of the street in a few years but Tommy and his father were visitors. Early in the 1970's our parents married.
I recall his high school graduation, & how he wanted to go to the original Woodstock. I remember how he and my brother Ray were both drafted during Vietnam. Luckily both were assigned stateside. I remember his wedding to his first wife Mary, and his oldest son Sean is slightly younger than my oldest Jennifer.
Sometime after Tom Sr. died, we lost touch in the 1990's but I still have plenty of fond memories of him.
My condolences go out to his entire family. He was a fun guy, with a kind heart and big smile.
Message from Angela Ciufo Rovinelli
May 6, 2016 9:47 AM
Thank you for the kind words, and a little history about Tom. He is missed every day, and I miss that smile and the twinkle in his eye. He was a good man, and your are right, he had a great heart.
Message from Rosa (Hiatt) Maurizio
March 18, 2016 9:05 PM
Our condolences to the Toohey family. We remember the Toohey family from our Saint Ann days. So sorry for your loss.
Message from cappy and Gerry Capodagli
March 18, 2016 5:22 PM
We are Christina,s grandparents. We met Kyle and know he comes from a good family. We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and Prayers for comfort.
Message from Mary Jane Southouse Fast
March 17, 2016 10:23 PM
My condolences and love to Tommy's family on the loss of their husband and dad, and my childhood buddy.
Message from Judith toohey
May 6, 2016 9:48 AM
Thank you Mary Jane, Tom talked of you often. He is missed. I couldn't bring myself to read these. But I thank you for your kind words.
A candle was lit by Mary Jane Southouse Fast
on March 17, 2016 10:20 PM
Message from Peter Harmen Burke
March 17, 2016 7:05 PM
RIP Tom ,. God Bless the Toohey family and friends in their time of sorrow ,.
A candle was lit by Peter Harmen Burke
on March 17, 2016 7:04 PM
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